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Eliminate
Anxiety and Panic Attacks For Good
If
you suffer from...
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Palpitations
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a pounding heart, or an accelerated heart rate
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Sweating
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Trembling or shaking
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Shortness of breath
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A choking sensation
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Chest pain or discomfort
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Nausea or stomach cramps
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Derealization (a feeling of unreality)
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Fear of losing control or going crazy
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Fear of dying Numbness or a tingling sensation
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Chills or hot flashes
...then
you've experienced firsthand some of the possible symptoms
of a panic or anxiety attack. If you are reading this
page because a loved one suffers from these symptoms
and you are trying to understand or help, it's hard
to appreciate what they go through.
Just
try to imagine what it feels like to experience one,
if you can.
Here
is a typical example:
Standing
in a supermarket queue, it’s been a long wait but only
one customer to go before you make it to the cashier.
Wait, what was that sensation? An unpleasant feeling
forms in your throat, your chest feels tighter, now
a sudden shortness of breath, and what do you know—your
heart skips a beat. “Please, God, not here.”
A
quick scan of the territory—is it threatening? Four
unfriendly faces queue behind, one person in front.
Pins and needles seem to prick you through your left
arm, you feel slightly dizzy, and then the explosion
of fear as you dread the worst. You are about to have
a panic attack.
There
is no doubt in your mind now that this is going to be
a big one. Okay, focus: Remember what you have been
taught, and it is time now to apply the coping techniques.
Begin the deep breathing exercise your doctor recommended.
In through the nose, out through the mouth.
Think
relaxing thoughts, and again, while breathing in, think
“Relax,” and then breathe out. But it doesn’t seem to
be having any positive effect; in fact, just concentrating
on breathing is making you feel self-conscious and more
uptight.
Okay,
coping technique 2:
Gradual
muscle relaxation. Tense both shoulders, hold for 10
seconds, then release. Try it again. No; still no difference.
The anxiety is getting worse and the very fact that
you are out of coping techniques worsens your panic.
If only you were surrounded by your family, or a close
friend were beside you so you could feel more confident
in dealing with this situation.
Now,
the adrenaline is really pumping through your system,
your body is tingling with uncomfortable sensations,
and now the dreaded feeling of losing complete control
engulfs your emotions. No one around you has any idea
of the sheer terror you are experiencing. For them,
it’s just a regular day and another frustratingly slow
queue in the supermarket.
You
are out of options. Time for Plan C.
The
most basic coping skill of all is “fleeing.” Excuse
yourself from the queue; you are slightly embarrassed
as it is now that it is your turn to pay. The cashier
is looking bewildered as you leave your shopping behind
and stroll towards the door. There is no time for excuses—you
need to be alone. You leave the supermarket and get
into your car to ride it out alone. Could this be the
big one? The one you fear will push you over the edge
mentally and physically. Ten minutes later the panic
subsides.
It’s
10:30 a.m. How are you going to make it through the
rest of the day?
If
you suffer from panic or anxiety attacks, the above
scenerio probably sounds very familiar. It may have
even induced feelings of anxiety and panic just reading
it. The particular situations that trigger your panic
and anxiety may differ; maybe the bodily sensations
are a little different. Or maybe it happened to you
for the first time on a plane, in the dentist chair,
or even at home, while doing nothing in particular.
If
you have ever had what has become known as a “panic
attack,” take comfort in the fact that you are by no
means alone.
A
panic attack always comes with the acute sense of impending
doom. You feel you are either about to lose your mind
or one of your vital bodily functions is about to cease
functioning and you will end your days right there among
the canned goods and frozen food.
You
are by no means alone; you’re not even one in a million.
In America, it is estimated that almost 5% of the population
suffer from some form of anxiety disorder. For some,
it may be the infrequent panic attacks that only crop
up in particular situations-like when having to speak
in front of others, while, for other people, it can
be so frequent and recurring that it inhibits them from
leaving their home. Frequent panic attacks often develop
into what medical physicians refer to as an “anxiety
disorder.”
One
of the first steps to regaining control of your life
is getting helpful information. This site will give
you that, and more.
The
beginning of your recovery starts here. What you will
learn is that there is a very good chance you are about
to end the cycle of panic attacks in your life. You
will learn not only to regain the carefree life you
remember once having, but will also gain new confidence
in living. Your answer to living free from “panic” or
“anxiety attacks” is at hand.
This
site demonstrates that the panic and anxiety that you
have experienced will be the very key to your courage
and success.
Begin
the road to recovery by browsing through the site. While
many of you may have read almost everything you can
possibly read relating to panic and anxiety I assure
you this site offers something very effective.
Did
you know...?
The
key difference between someone who is cured of panic
attacks and those who are not is really very simple.
The people who are cured no longer fear panic attacks.
I’ll try to show you how to be one of these people as
well.
What
if I told you the trick to ending panic and anxiety
attacks is to want to have one. That sounds strange,
even contradictory, but let me explain.
The
trick to panic attacks is wanting to have one-the wanting
pushes it away. Can you have a panic attack in this
very second? No!
You
know the saying that "what you resist, persists."
Well that saying applies perfectly to fear. If you resist
a situation out of fear, the fear around that issue
will persist. How do you stop resisting–you move directly
into it, into the path of the anxiety, and by doing
so it cannot persist.
In
essence what this means is that if you daily voluntarily
seek to have a panic attack, you cannot have one. Try
in this very moment to have a panic attack and I will
guarantee you cannot. You may not realize it but you
have always decided to panic. You make the choice by
saying this is beyond my control.
Another
way to appreciate this is to imagine having a panic
attack as like standing on a cliff's edge. The anxiety
seemingly pushes you closer to falling over the edge.
To
be rid of the fear you must metaphorically jump. You
must jump off the cliff edge and into the anxiety and
fear and all the things that you fear most.
How
do you jump? You jump by wanting to have a panic attack.
You go about your day asking for anxiety and panic attacks
to appear.
Your
real safety is the fact that a panic attack will never
harm you. That is medical fact. You are safe, the sensations
are wild but no harm will come to you. Your heart is
racing but no harm will come to you. The jump becomes
nothing more than a two foot drop! Perfectly safe.
Learn
more
http://www.panicportal.com
Joe
Barry is an international panic disorder coach. His
informative site on all issues related to panic and
anxiety attacks can be found here:http://www.panicportal.com
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